Lets Take A Hint

JL: lol might sound odd but ill give it a try... So i liked or still like this guy that i met and we only talked on the phone because he is very busy and i seen himm like 3 times we were i guess kinda dating for 2 months... hes going to be going away for trainning for the rcmp next momth. anyways we were talking one day and then he didnt contact me for a week and then we sent me an elmail saying

JL: we cant talk no more and lets drop everything and that hes again sorry

JL: so why would somebody just all a sudden do that?also have a baby so i dont know maybe thats it too

Mason: you saw a guy 3 times and considered that dating?

JL: yeah lol we were taking things slow bc hes going away for rcmp trainning

Mason: It doesn't sound like he thought you were dating

Mason: through talking on the phone a lot and not seeing you it sounds like he is trying to avoid you

Mason: and "always being busy" is never an excuse

Mason: its always an out

Mason: its a way to let the other party not feel bad

Mason: if a guy likes a girl, it doesnt matter what he is doing, he will always make time for her

JL: also his mom wouldnt let him out bc shes overly i dunno dont jusdt let him out

JL: they are leb

Mason: and also, that letter and him saying he is busy, all together sounds like there is another girl

Mason: like while you were 'dating' he was with someone

Mason: but didn't want to tell you because he didn't know where it would go with the person he was with

JL: so you don't think that just because he is leaving really soon could be prosible? and he doesn't want anything to get into his way? bc we were fine one day and everything....

Mason: it sounds like you are just making excuses for him

Mason: when this guy is just not that into you

JL: i was thinking to send him a letter and explaing he should of atleast told me wat was happening and stuff should i?

JL: i think its just because i need a reason why

Mason: if he liked you as much as you liked him then he would have found a way to keep things going when he was away

Mason: You are making up reasons and making excuses for him because you don't want to believe that he is just not into you

Mason: you like the guy and want to think you have a shot at something

Mason: so when he shows signs that he isn't into you then you find an excuse

Mason: it's natural behavior and lots of women do it

JL: but wat about a reason do you think if i send him a letter you think he would at least say why?

Mason: most guys dont like confrontation

Mason: so instead of being honest and giving reasons, they just skirt the issue

Mason: and stop talking to the girl

Mason: or they are always busy

Mason: or something of the sort

Mason: if you sent him a letter, I dont think he will respond

Mason: and if he did I think it would be a vague response and then he wouldn't talk to you after he came back