tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1303063577050339653.post9003463536941849787..comments2023-10-22T06:08:48.470-07:00Comments on Ask Mason: Booty Call Bad BoyMason Stanleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12530379390050745793noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1303063577050339653.post-64582427898398693242009-05-30T16:52:03.829-07:002009-05-30T16:52:03.829-07:00Thank you, Mason.
I'm a booty call. Have been for...Thank you, Mason.<br /><br />I'm a booty call. Have been for months. But I was raped by a different guy last month (he's in jail now but that's a different story). Now the guy that I was the booty call for is pushing sex again. I keep telling him I'm not ready or saying I'm busy. He says he likes me and he just wants to make me feel good. But I didn't like having sex with him and I'm not ready for sex after being raped.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1303063577050339653.post-41944926420310934942008-10-11T18:14:00.000-07:002008-10-11T18:14:00.000-07:00This is actually my exact situation. For a little ...This is actually my exact situation. For a little while, I was confused because we started off as a hook up, and I did not expect anything from him. I started getting phone calls from him, and I started talking to him for hours at a time. Then we started hanging out on a weekly basis which would always end up with either me sleeping over or him sleeping over. After a couple of months, he went to another state for the summer, so I thought it was over. He still atleast called once or twice a week and we talked. i actually lost my virginity to him, and I feel like once that happened he stopped calling as much. Once he came back from his summer, he didnt call, or reply to my texts, except once when I was sick. He did that for two weeks, and I realized I might have just been his booty call. Then I just got mad, and stopped talking to him. Then we talked things out and he said he has just been busy and he apologizes. We havent talked too much in the past month, except recently. I actually got back with my ex boyfriend in that month just to realize he was cheating for the second time, and the very next night hooked up with the other guy. BAD DECISION. I told him it was a mistake and it can not happen again. Lately, we have been talking a lot lately, but I had to once again lay down the rules. I have made a lot of bad decisions in the past year, and was not going to repeat them again. Im not sure if he wants me to be the booty call or if he wants something more? He said he not once saw me as a slut in the past 7 months, and not many people know the true him. He somehow just feels comfortable joking around with me and being his self. At one time, its like he might want something, but another time its like im a booty call. i dont know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1303063577050339653.post-50922889500696781712008-07-10T10:13:00.000-07:002008-07-10T10:13:00.000-07:00Oh ya, it is horrible for girls to be in that situ...Oh ya, it is horrible for girls to be in that situation. Guys can make sex a purely physical thing and it's not that easy for girls. A huge part of sex for women is emotional which is not entirely true for guys and that is how the booty calls start and girls get their little hearts broken.Mason Stanleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12530379390050745793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1303063577050339653.post-13924880604971957802008-07-09T18:32:00.000-07:002008-07-09T18:32:00.000-07:00Thanks LOTS Mason,You are the best. I am so a boot...Thanks LOTS Mason,<BR/>You are the best. I am so a booty call I know it but it is so hard to stop. I love the heat we make together but hurt so bad cause I only see him in bed. He talks to his girls while i'm lying there with him and he texts and stuff. He'll stop if i tell him to but the point is he never answers my calls, he never returns my calls, he only calls after the fun with friends are done. He never returns texts or texts anymore. He can't even answer simple questions. SO PAINFUL!! I am on my 7th try to quit him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1303063577050339653.post-25914284110023365972008-04-18T07:31:00.000-07:002008-04-18T07:31:00.000-07:00This is my exact situation right now. Thanks. I kn...This is my exact situation right now. Thanks. I know what my response will be tonight!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com